October 27, 2008

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    I had put this picture up in mid-August, when we stopped at Ken’s brother in Chippewa Falls for a short visit.  He had lung cancer.  I am so glad we were able to get there to visit then, when he was still feeling fairly well.  When Ken’s sis went to visit him a month later, he was having breathing problems then, and was also weaker.


    We received the phone call Saturday that Warren had passed away Friday nite.  He died peacefully with almost all his family around him.  Oldest son is a trucker, and he couldn’t get back home until Saturday morning.  We had called there earlier in the week, and Doris said Warren was bedridden now and on hospice.  The pastor had just been there to visit, and the pastor broke down.  They were good friends.  Warren, his pastor, and two of the pastors from our churches in Eau Claire would go out together for a potato pancake breakfast at Perkins once in a while.  Everybody loved Warren.  He always showed such a sincere interest in everyone!


    Tomorrow morning we will be driving the 4 hours there for the memorial service, and probably back home the same day. 


    Warren was a very special man.  He was a Christian who lived his Christianity.  When he retired early, he worked hard at his church, and when our Lutheran synod’s Builders for Christ program began, he and his wife, Doris, traveled the country in their motor home several times a year, helping to build and remodel new churches, schools, and parsonages.  They even flew to Antigua to work.  Some jobs would only last a couple weeks or so, and others lasted months. 


    Our son, Jeff, (the “traveler”) said that so often when they would visit one of our churches around the country, they would find people who remembered Warren and Doris—-usually from work done on their church.


    Warren and Doris have four sons.  All good christian men, also.  They will all miss their dad very much, but know that Warren is now out of his earthly struggle.  One son and grandson were sitting at his bedside not too long before he died, and the 14 yr. old grandson was reading the 23rd Psalm to Warren.  Doris said that even though Warren was not totally conscious anymore, she could see a change come over his face—-that he knew that Justin was reading this special psalm to him, and that he loved it.


    Doris said he never had pain.  Since he was terminal, they were able to give him anything he needed.


    Doris is a very strong woman, and admitted that she will do fine—–until everything is done, and she is all alone.  Then she will have time to grieve.  But her youngest son  and two grands are just a few miles away, and her oldest son, who is single, comes home on most weekends from trucking.  The other two sons are just a couple hours away.


    Anyway, that is where we will be tomorrow.  Keep Warren’s family in your prayers.  Thank you all ahead of time.


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    Also wanted to let you know that the “Travelers” are now at West Palm Beach.  They arrived yesterday.  They drove through some rainy weather, and saw several bad accidents along the way from Nashville. Jeff said they came around a corner in S. Tennessee just in time to see a car flip end-to -end and go into the median right ahead of them.  They cannot stop their big rig very quickly, so they didn’t stop.  Jeff said others behind them stopped to help.


     They have found out that camping is VERY expensive in West Palm Beach.  They will be staying at a nice county park (campground) about 15 minutes from the Trump Golf Resort where he will be working. The campsite will be costing them $700 a month!!!!!  Unbelievable.  But they had looked at a private RV park closer to the golf course, that was the same price, but the sites were so close to each other that Jeff  wouldn’t even be able to fit their bus in a site. And it was in an undesirable neighborhood.  They will be there through Thanksgiving weekend, which is when the LPGA golf tournament will be.  He starts the sign job on Nov. 3.  His Thanksgiving will be spent on the golf course.  He has to be on the course at all times when the tournament is actually going on, in case any signs are damaged they can be fixed or replaced right away.  The sponsors pay good money for the signage, and they have to be seen at all times.


    I hope you all have a good week.  Ken was supposed to start his skin cancer excisions tomorrow, but that whole schedule had to be rearranged.  He had 4 appts. set up.  This one will be rescheduled to be done last instead of first, and the others will stay the same.  Now, he won’t be done until Dec. 16, instead of Dec. 2.—Merry Christmas!!  lol

Comments (20)

  • I will tell you I’m sorry to hear of Warren’s death but I’m also glad he is no longer in pain and that we are assured of where he is right now and that he is whole and healthy. I do feel sympathy for his wife and family as they go on without him.

    Be safe on your trip. And prayers for Ken with his proceedures.

  • I am sorry to hear about Warren’s death, may he rest in peace now. Frank was on morphine so he too was pain free and able to see and hear the family before he died. I found that a great consolation. I hope that Doris is able to get some peace as she remembers his passing surrounded by the family. My prayers are for all of you. Marie

  • Oh NO!! Awwww I am so sorry to hear this. Such a sad terrible time.
    Sunny is right, he is no longer in pain, but oh it is so hard to let go of your brother.
    I am sorry. I will certainly keep Warrens family in my prayers, You can count on it!

    My dad has some skin cancer scrapings done. It goes pretty well.
    Ken is a tough guy, I know he will handle it well…
    I sure do love you two.
    Please travel safely, prayers from me for your safety as well
    always

  • My thoughts and prayers are with you all.  I’m glad you got a good visit in with Warren before he passed.

    ((hugs))

  • I bet the lower gas prices help the road rollers out a bit.  I was thinking of them when gas got up over $4 per gallon.  Warren looks full of life in the August picture…. I don’t know why I am so emotional these days, but I am sitting her with tears in my eyes because of Warren, whom I never met… but my heart is sad because of the loss.  Bless you all!

  • I’m sorry to hear about Warren’s death. He sounds (and looks) like he was a wonderful man.

    I had some cancer removed from my throat and it was “a piece of cake.” I don’t even recall it hurting much at all. I imagine that depends on the size of it, though. Mine was just about size of a quarter.

  • I am really sorry to hear about Warren’s death, he looked full of life in the photo, It is a sad time but you will get over it.Take care…….

  • Sorry to hear of Kens brothers death. Glad they got to spent that bit of time together. Glad he’s no longer hurting. Ya’ll drive safe

  • I’m so sorry to hear of Warren’s passing.   It’s so wonderful what hospice can do, and I am glad he had their help.  He looked so happy in that photo; I am glad you will have that memory.

    You’d think it would be expensive in West Palm Beach, but $700.00 a month for a campsite is ridiculous.  I hope the weather is fabulous there.  What fun it would be to go somewhere like that right now – it’s getting cold here!  Hmmm, maybe you need to visit them at Thanksgiving!

  • The 23rf Psalm lifted Warren to the heaven. I am sure he was conscious and heard what was read . But it ‘ s so hard . Separation is cruel . I am sorry for you and send to you my condolences , Nancy and Ken .
     About Jeff what amazes me is he always finds a job there where they stiop .
    Love

    Michel

  • Once again, my condolences and hugs from afar.  Have a safe trip today.  It seems not only was he a wonderful Christian man but he lived his faith!  To do so much for others when he could have “been on the golf course” so to speak is a tribute to his Faith, what an awesome example he has set for those around him.  And so you know that it’s not truly “goodbye” just, “so long” until later.  What a great comfort and joy that is.

  • Nothing can I add to the previous comments. May you travel safely.

  • I am very sorry to hear about Warren , in the photo he has a very warm smile. Prayers for all the family

  • My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.  My heart breaks for Doris.  She’s so busy she thinks she’ll do fine.  It took an entire year for the bottom to drop out for me.  Just encourage her to talk about him as often as she likes.

  • I am so sorry to hear about your brother-in-law’s passing.  Thankfully he is whole again and is no longer suffering.  It’s the people that he left behind that is doing the suffering now.    God Bless you all.

  • The 23rd Psalm was my Dad’s favorite Bible chapter. Warren is no longer in pain, but I am sure you guys miss him. I like the picture. Take care.

  • God Bless your family during this sad time. 

  • so sorry to hear of this; God has him now…be thankful for that…I wish you and Ken peace and strength to handle this with all the family. take care sweetie, chat soon!

    blessings,
    sage

  • this was a lovely post in remeberance.  Warren sounds as if he lived his life well and fully with joy.  what more could be asked for.  i am sure that you will be there for your sister-in-law and Ken as they goes through their pain.  You too, may we be there for you.  -g

  • Me deepest condolences to all the family – he was a very special man.

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